| “Why is it,” asked the wealthy man of his minister, “that people call me stingy when everyone knows that when I die, I’m leaving everything to the church?”
The minister smiled and replied, “Let me tell you a little fable about the pig and the cow.”
“The pig was deeply puzzled by its unpopularity, while the cow was cherished by all. One day, the pig approached the cow and said, ‘People always speak so fondly of you and your gentle eyes. They think you’re generous because you give them milk and cream every day.
But what about me? I give them everything I have – bacon, ham, bristles for brushes, even my feet are pickled! Yet, no one likes me. Why is that?'”
“Do you know what the cow answered?” asked the minister. “The cow said, ‘Perhaps it is because I start giving while I’m still living.'”
When is the best time for those around us to experience the best of us—now, while we’re alive, or after we’re gone? Are they more likely to celebrate our presence or our absence? And when is the right time to enjoy our wealth, health, and life here on earth? By being kind to others.
It is surprising how many people wait until they are gone to allow others to benefit from them. Far too often, also, we wait until someone has passed away before we truly appreciate them. Grand tributes, heartfelt speeches, and elaborate ceremonies mean little compared to simple acts of kindness while a person is still alive. People need to know they are valued, loved, and cherished today—not tomorrow when it’s too late.
Acts of kindness benefit not only the recipient but also the giver. Research into human flourishing reveals a profound truth: our Creator has designed us to experience authentic happiness through loving relationships with others. Gratitude—the appreciation of others’ kindness—naturally leads to generosity, the act of extending kindness to those around us. Science shows that kindness triggers natural hormones that foster happiness, fulfilment, and well-being. When we engage in kind acts, our brains release oxytocin, dopamine, and serotonin—chemicals responsible for feelings of joy, connection, and contentment.
Kindness has been linked to lower stress levels, improved cardiovascular health, and a stronger immune system. It enhances our sense of purpose and belonging, reinforcing the idea that we are part of something greater than ourselves. Furthermore, acts of kindness create a ripple effect, inspiring others to pay it forward, fostering a culture of compassion and mutual support.
Let us be intentional in spreading love and kindness where it is needed most—right here, right now, while we are still living. Whether through small gestures or grand acts, let us seize every opportunity to uplift, appreciate, and support one another. The joy of giving in the present is a gift to both the giver and the receiver, creating ripples of love that extend far beyond our own lives.
Today is the perfect moment to show appreciation, to say kind words, and to extend a helping hand. Let us not wait for a eulogy to express what could be said now in a warm embrace, a heartfelt conversation, or an act of generosity.
Start giving while we’re still living. The world needs our love today.
May the love of God and His peace, which surpass all human understanding, fill your heart this year and always. |
